Thread:LilPotato/@comment-9289481-20150110221325/@comment-5108785-20150110232644

Look, there's two possible situations here. Either he's really in a very low emotional state, so low that he can't tell you for fear of worsening it, or he's lying about it to avoid something. If he's lying/exaggerating it and you push him to do something he doesn't want to, such as give the information immediately, then you'll have people who believe he really is that low jumping to his defence and you'll both not have the information you want, and also look like an complete asshole.

If he's telling the truth, pushing him will worsen his emotional state, make him less likely to tell you what's wrong with the facebook group and make his opinions far less objective even if he does. Additionally, you'll be pushing a very sad man to do something he doesn't want to do, thus making you look like a complete asshole. Either way, pushing it right now isn't going to get you anywhere.

...Although as he's said he will tell you once his emotional state recovers, i don't know why we're still discussing this.

Out of curiosity, if i might ask, what exactly happened to get him this depressed? (If he is, which i for one do believe)